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When researching prostitution — sex workers escort-girls and their male clients — we face an object with a particular kind of social, political, ideological visibility.

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Thematic warning: This article contains content of an adult nature and therefore its access should be restricted to person's above age She was never of the belief that sex work was sex-free: a fact and practice which she now thinks is sometimes misrepresented within certain parts the industry.

For instance, when sex work is portrayed in media, it often smooths over the more arbitrary details of the job, which I think creates a different reality - sex work is not always luxurious, or exciting, or profitable.

A look inside Australia's growing 'feminist porn' scene A new wave of feminist porn, created from the female point of view, is empowering men and women by highlighting diverse sexualities and bodies. Social perceptions surrounding the world of escorting are, perhaps, fuelled by pop culture and media portrayals of the industry. The hugely popular Netflix series You, Me, Her is one of the latest in a long string of shows based around the work of escorting.

ing series such as The Girlfriend Experience, Secret Diary of a Callgirl, and Satisfaction; You, Me, Her takes on the escorting industry in broad strokes, eliminating much of the reality of the sex work involved. The Canadian series focuses around the polyamorous relationship of married couple, Emma and Jack Trakarsky; and a year-old college student and part-time escort, Izzy. Instead of having a night of sex, they engage in hours of deep conversation. Sex, it seems from this show, is an optional part of the escort gig.

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But, as she points out, this is almost always followed by the expectation of sex. Given the transient and often secretive nature of the industry, there are no official statistics on the demographic of Australian sex workers.

However, Scarlet Alliance the Australian Sex Workers Association estimates there are roughly 20, sex workers at any given time in Australia. Despite popular representations of escorts being young, white, and female; Kim says that it is far more diversified across both ethnicity and gender.

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Valentine, who is of Middle Eastern and Asian descent, says popular notions of what an escort might look like are often whitewashed. She explains that many women of non-Caucasian background who are involved in sex work are rarely portrayed with the same sense of glamour, or power, or prestige on television as Caucasian women. They are invariably portrayed as trapped, forced to work in the industry under duress.

Sex slaves, not escorts in control of their own destinies. On the contrary, Valentine says that her experience has been one of safety and respect - conditions that not all sex workers have access to. I would be lying if I said that the financial side was not a large aspect in the benefits on the work.

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I would not work as a sex worker for free, but then, the majority of people would never work for free. Turn and look behind you and think - you have to have sex with this man. Always my first tip. Cadine advises women considering escort work to come to grips with the reality of the profession before ing up. Some women might really enjoy the job and it may even exceed their expectations.

They are attracted to a fantasy. Want to explore the world of escorting? Watch Payday on Viceland, Thursday 20 July at 9pm. Payday is a new series airing on Viceland every Thursday at 9pm, debuting on 15 June. OPINION: Sex workers deserve more than to be the butt of the joke in 'Rough Night' "'Rough Night' makes light of an issue endemic within the sex worker community: that is, scores of us dying because non-sex workers just don't seem to understand that we are people," writes Kate Iselin.

Sex workers need mental health care too All that these two sex workers ask is that you keep your stereotypes to yourself and let them enjoy a mentally healthy life, free of stigma. SBS acknowledges the traditional owners of country throughout Australia.

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SBS Life spoke with two Australian escorts to get the real story about what it means to be an escort inand they each paint a very different picture. By Maggie Kelly. A new wave of feminist porn, created from the female point of view, is empowering men and women by highlighting diverse sexualities and bodies.

All that these two sex workers ask is that you keep your stereotypes to yourself and let them enjoy a mentally healthy life, free of stigma. Stay connected with Voices Stay connected with Voices. Vertical Tabs Newsletter.

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